But it was always the same thing.But it was always the same thing. And even though people complained about it all the time, everyone still went and participated in some fashion or other. Some people didn't participate in hooking up. Some people refused to sleep with some drunk person they met at a party, even if they wanted to, and just socialized with friends. That was ok. Also, many people preferred to have girlfriends and boyfriends, and sometimes those relationships lasted a while. More often they didn't, and then such relationships only served the purpose of giving people allegedly safe & reliable sex with a single partner, for as long as that lasted. Even so, most people didn't go to a blood testing center together to be sure of their new partners. But some did. Actually scrumping wasn't really having sex. Scrumping was when girls (or boys-- I don't want to be sexist, but it applied more to girls) didn't really want to have intercourse, but got really horny and dry-humped. They kept their underwear on, kissed & petted and did everything else, and generally made sure the guy was satisfied so he wouldn't ask for anything else. Just wanted to clear up that term. But don't think that people ONLY scrumped; rather, it was probably the exception to sex as opposed to the rule. So there was a LOT of sex going on. And the weird thing about it was that two people who didn't necessarily know each other well, would go off and have sex, maybe stay the night, and then not talk to each other after that. Or not mention what happened. They would act like nothing happened! I always thought that was really weird. Oh well. Whatever floats your boat. A friend once confided in me something her best female friend once said... she once passed a guy she slept with a couple of weeks prior, and he said "hey, what's up?" and went on her way. She thought... "How can you just be so nonchalant about it? I've seen your penis!!!!" I always got a kick out of that story. I never did fuck her. But I wanted to... Anyhow, now that you have some background, I thought i'd start my narrative with how I met my first Scrumper! Chapter 2: My First Scrumper, and her Roommate! I met my first scrumper while I was doing the laundry. |