...long and carefully!) I believe there is a reason for sexuality and sexually based relationships being the strongest of all. It's based in intimacy and understanding between human beings of the opposite or same sex. I do not care to "pass on" or "judge" the pairings by sex or gender, thank you, because to each pair or group, goes their own things and choices. It's not tolerance on my part that makes me say this but a recognition that I don't know what drives other people who are not "like me" and I have neither the time nor the money to find out, even if I wanted to; which I do not. I understand ME and I understand a very few special women who are almost exact opposites from me and therefore nearly perfectly matched TO ME, in THIS, our special, mutual, realm. The category of people who approached me that fall under what I decribed in (2), above, did not and do upset me or in any way infuriate me. I choose to simply ignore them unless they become persistant enough to make permanent pests of themselves among me and mine, which, often, they have and they do. Their special little penchant or game is to categorize all males who supposedly "demean" women as wife beaters and bullies. SPECIAL PEOPLE, especially MASTERS, do not hit, punish, bind or do anything else in anger, EVER. The real MASTERS I know are very generous, very considerate and very understanding men whose powers of obser- vation and understanding of submissive women enable them to see something that all others, who lack their powers, can not see, much more, understand and deal with. |