"No ."No ... I *do* want to continue." "Are you *sure*?" I thought about it for a second ... what a shmuck I am! I almost blew this opportunity. "Yes, I'm sure. I'm absolutely certain." I looked at her expectantly. She smiled and nodded reassuringly. "Good. I want it too, Al." She looked at me with a sexy expression for a moment or two, and then she got a bit more serious again and said, "So I know this is difficult, but this really isn't going to work unless you can tell me how you'd like me to dominate you." I sighed, but nodded in acknowledgement. "OK, but please bear with me if I falter or get nervous. I'll eventually manage to get it all out." "Certainly, Al. Say it any way you need to. I'll be patient." She gave me another sexy, reassuring smile. "Alright. It's like, I don't ... I don't want the 'Mistress' kind of stuff with pain and humiliation and force or anything. I like a 'gentler, kinder' kind of domination." She laughed. I felt a bit more at ease after my joke and pressed on. "You know, the woman being in control ..." She interrupted. "Not 'the woman', but *me*, right now." She gave me another sexy look. "Go on." I smiled and shook my head in near disbelief. This was really happening! "Right ... OK. I want *you* to be in control and everything, but it's got to be seductive, erotic, friendly ... not painful or anthing." I looked up at her ... she was patiently looking at me. She motioned me to go on. "OK ... I don't want you to hurt me ... I really don't want that ... I just want you to make all the decisions ... to ... to make me do things ... but ... but by seducing me and turning me on ... not by forcing me or hurting me or anything like that ... do you understand?" ;;;; She nodded. "Yes, I understand, Al." She started speaking slowly and clearly, making sure I heard and understood every word. "You want to be dominated, but not to be hurt or embarassed or humiliated. You want to be told what to do, but what you're told to do is pleasurable, not painful. You want to have things be unexpected, but with a woman who knows or can anticipate what you want or what would turn you on. You also like to be kept in a state of arousal for a long time without cumming, and to be brought to the edge of orgasm and then to not be allowed to cum . |